Cate & Vanessa talk about their long journey to have a child. They discuss their IUI attempts as well as their experiences throughout the adoption process as a same sex couple. They share some great advice on how to navigate the world of adoption and for them why it was all worth it.

Pam had an easy road to parenthood right up until she started trying for a third child. For over five years, she was bogged down by health issues and chronic pain but couldn’t give up her hope of having another child. Her advice to anyone experiencing trouble building a family is to trust your gut and don’t listen to negative people, they’ll drag you down. There is light at the end of the tunnel.